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I was a bit curious too about these personal attacks.

The way I see it life is full of different personalities -- your job, your friends, your family. We all have to deal with different personalities on a daily basis. I can't tell you all the times my feelings get hurt at work, not to mention I probably hurt my co-workers feelings too at times. No one's perfect. Just last Monday I was in tears here at work because my feelings were so hurt by two of my best buddies here, but now it's all good and it's history. I think everyone does a pretty good job here of being respectful overall. What would never be tolerated here would be like, "Hey, you're an Idiot if you like that tramp" or "Man, you're a Dumbass for defending that whore" they would definitely receive a slap, but as for some passionate debates, I strongly encourage them here. It can get way too boring here without them. That's one reason why I don't even post a whole lot. Without passion, it's impossible to hold my attention. The whole point of The Soap Spa when it was created was so that I and other people can feel like they can get passionate in posts without being reprimanded by the town sheriff. I was so sick of that crap over at Mary's or whatever it's called nowadays. I was "disciplined" and thus, this board was born.

We all know LL has a bit of an aggressive nature. We all know that you have a sensitive nature. We all know that Samantha has a humorous nature. We all know that Heidi has a balanced peacemaking nature. I could go on, but the point is, these natures are ALL NECESSARY not only on this board, but in the world. Neither you, nor I, can control everyone's nature. I value everyone's personalities here and the mix makes it interesting. As long as someone is not being purposely disruptive and purposely acting retarded then it's all good as far as I'm concerned. I just don't want anyone here to feel stifled, like I did years ago. That's key with me.

As far as BROOKE, from where I stand, these days I really don't feel that passionate in my hatred of her as I did a while back. Granted, I will always think she's the most self-centered, weak, disloyal, insecure female character in soap creation, but I really don't give her much thought as I find her scenes pretty boring now.

All I'm saying vicgirl is that I don't find it realistic to control personalities on a board, and I think our method here of not controlling things, has worked pretty well for us in the past years.

I'm glad you've decided to stay and I hope we all can remain tolerant of each other and during passionate times that we remember that there is more to each of us than the characters we admire or dislike.